Last night, you asked me... "What if...
I had asked you to marry me then, would you have married me?"
The answer is "Yes, I would have married you."
But I asked you once if you were willing to forsaken everyone and everything for me... and you said, "No."
No matter what you say now, I know too much to know that there is no future for us. There never had been and there never will be.
Wow. I've never asked husband this and I never will. I think I'd prefer that he forsakens everything for his parents and sibling. I'd like to come second. I'm sure he has me first but I won't accept that. I'll fight him. I will force him to help his dad and sister before me.
Just because you asked, and he said, no, doesn't mean he'll change his mind as he wanders thru life. There are just some things you don't ask. You just know. If you feel as though you have to ask, then you know already that he's not the one.
BTW, good to know you have the hots for programmers. I've worked with them in my days...quite a few. I won't say what I think of them, but I'm not a programmer gal. I'm a medicine gal...thus, my husband works in medicine.