I believe you will have to set boundary. Only meeting in public places to exchange the children for the weekends. And you, yourself, need to look ahead and not be dwelling on her wrong doings. You have the ability and the will to stop all that. There are ways to do everything.
It would be very easily done...however she's the one that insists on constantly bringing up past things. As if it's my fault that enables here to do her criminal activities. She is a person who tells people to move forward in life, but she brings ups past mistakes and reenact thems as if it's the first time she's making those mistakes. Simply put, if she's cheating on the tenth time, she acts as if she is cheating for the first time. How's that? Why bother saying such things to my face after the fact.
I have politely asked her to pack up her things and I will help her move. She's told me of her arrangements to move out already, months ago. Now she says...to tired, went out and partied, no one is available to help her move out. Okay...this has been going on for how long now? She's got plenty of help to party whenever, but no help to move a few bags.
Move out on the same day you party...it's that simple. Already shacking it up, what's wrong with a few more luggage bags?
Stop leeching off of me.
