Some girls these days don't have any shame and they don't have class. I've seen many girls who come from loving homes and supportive parents but still choose to be a "poj laib" rau ub tau no. They act like their bf is the only d.ick on earth. I know two who packed their bags and went to live with their bf (or should I say the bf's parents' house). Both set of parents were too pissed off to even ask the bf's side to "tuaj hais tshoob".
If things don't work out for them 10 years from now, no doubt they will be like all the other Hmong women who claim the culture made them do it and that Hmong men are all abusive. I mean c'mon, we all know many of those Hmong wives who claim abuse eloped with their husband's at 15 because they wanted to escape having to do house chores.