I've never dated outside the race. I've had a petite Puertican girl and some white girls who wanted me like crazy. But once you cross that line, it's difficult to make it back. Those who cross that line don't realize that peb cov Hmoob hlub peb Hmoob tshaaj. We understand each other more and those who think that the other race can do that or is better is simply dreaming.
Qhov tseeb, kev sib hlub yeej nyuaj heev. Many times, it feels like like Kryptonite (it doesn't exist). However, the hope is there. It doesn't mean that we give up on our kind and seek elsewhere believing that it was the right choice when it was the worst. Bad relationships with our own doesn't conclude that the other race is better. That's one of the most stupidest mind sets in the world. Fact is, there are still good and righteous Hmong men out there. Tseem muaj cov hluas nraug Hmoob kawg hlub cov hluas nkauj tshaaj puab txuj sa. And I'm sure there are good girls left out there.
In addition, we already have racial, cultural, religious, and language barriers/issues. It's sad to see foolish Hmong women (and men) go that route and ruin their lives.
As for me, kuv hlub peb cov ntxhais hmoob dhlau lawm. Kev noj, kev haus, kev cai, kev muaj mob, yug cov Hmoob txhaa les yuav paab.
I can go on forever. But I'll end it here for now.