Well ok, like I said... I can only speak from my few experiences...
There's not much...
But they kinda seem the same..
I know I come off as a really dumb person in real life sometimes..
That I'm not that intellectual or smart...
That I really don't have much to say...
That I'm not really good at conversation.. ..
That I'm pretty quiet....
That maybe there's not much up there(you know the brain department)
So pretty much... like I said... I know sometimes I really come off as someone who's kinda dumb...
Also, my job's not the greatest...
In my opinion, it's not that impressive at all..
I don't really drive a "nice" car...
And a few of these girls... they're really smart too, they are holding "1st" world country jobs. Doing things with their lives.. going places if you will. They have nice cars etc... materially speaking, they're good to go.
To compare me to them, where they are in life and what they've achieved on a scale of 1-10, I'd say they're 8's and up.. I'm like 3 and below.
I don't want to say that they think they are better than me..
But it does seem like they'd prefer someone who's actually more on their level. Which is not a bad thing...
I guess I could be more, or at least appear more accomplished, Speak more eloquently, do more with my life, etc etc...but you know what? That's just not me...
And honestly... for me anyways...
Sure I won't speak much or talk much... but there's a reason, it's like... I don't see a point in it.. Yes I could talk about myself, but personally, I don't find it interesting, maybe I'm wrong and it'd be interesting to some girl.. but I don't think so... so I don't see a point in talking about myself etc... and even amongst a number of things... current events, politics, etc etc etc...
I'll talk about something if I find it "fun" to talk about... like fishing, reeling in that big fish!, or cars, basketball, sports and that's about it.
I think even sometimes, the way I speak, it probably comes off as very child like, not adult like, or not professional.. . or I guess you could say... not really suit my age...
But then .... I feel like... "why am I going to start talking prim and proper! It always seems like an act!" ..... I always feel like "man! Just talk normal!"
Obviously I'm not going to change...
But you know, the way I do come across to the opposite sex... It kinda open my eyes a bit to how hmong girls are nowadays..
Well some of them, I'm sure not all of them, but it does seem that they do want a guy and even at least just dating, who is more on their level.
I'm not going to say the men are intimidated by "strong" hmong women, it's more like, they won't even see us!
Yikes!
So guys, if yalls wanna nab a hmong girl nowadays...
You gotta fix yourself!
Speak proper.
Be/appear intellectual.
Spread your peacock feathers...fla unt yourself a bit, obviously not excessively but enough to show them you're a guy going places by.. I guess dressing a big nicer have a few nice material things...
You should be good to go after that.
Hmong girls aren't really looking for that simple guy anymore... they want a 21st Century hmong guy who's made it in America with that 1st world country job!