ok Debbie Downer!
i can see your movie now...you, a hmong american going to her village,
meats up with her. you guys have slow motion run on the dirt roads, she jumps into your arms, you spin her around, with lee kong's music playing in the background. then the movie jumps to her crying for because her mom let you guys get married, her mom feeds her opium and dies because the mother wants you for herself. the mother charges you with the cause of death, who now holds your passports, id's and all the money you have. you have no obligation but to sleep and marry her. scared yet?