BD,
Even if your a single Hmong woman and/or even if your husband goes with you to the clubs, haters still gonna hate...That's just how it is in the Hmong community...Un fortunately.
As single Hmong woman, you'll get the "poj Laib" label from some..
As a married couple, you two will get the "married people going to the club is immoral" label from some backward primitives with short sighted narrow views...simply because they either hate the clubs or know nothing about it.
Since being "online" ranked higher than the "clubs" for married people to cheat, I don't know why all those primitives are on here bashing your choice...Can you say HYPOCRITES?
Ehhhh people will say what people think, I could care less as I have my own thoughts and so forth..
But it's not surprising to get a bunch of bashers xD