I would love to use "depends" if they're gay or not, as well...but I'll give you my list.
top 5 reasons to be in:
1) she's still smoking hot
2) she makes more money than I do (less is okay too
)
3) she has a place of her own
4) she has a car of her own
5) most important of all...her child(ren) is well behaved.
top 5 reasons NOT to be in:
1) 8+ kids
2) 7 kids
3) 6 kids
4) 5 kids
5) 4 kids
I can handle 3 or below, anymore I may not be as honest, in the relationship..
..same as a woman who would not want to be in a relationship with a man who has to pay child support to more than 3 kids...worst, more than to 3 baby mamas.