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Anyways... I know how she feels...
A lot of times I'm in places by my hmongself...
I try to meet other hmongs but dang! Well obviously I'd like to meet some hmong girls of course.. but like I said! They all snotty or I guess just don't wanna meet up.
I mean, I'm in a non-hmong place and the one hmong person or little pocket of hmong I find on facebook and... they just ignore me... I get it, I get it..
Even on my facebook I don't have flattering pictures of myself... because I don't really care for that...
Right now I'm in D.C. Are there any Hmong's here?
Nope!!!
I did find a hmong girl here but after a few messages... she stopped talking to me! Cheezez!
Nkaujsee's so gay she don't wanna hook me up with her phillie girlfriends! Thanks a lot for nothing!!!
And there really isn't any hmongs in NYC either...
And story I don't care to post here...
But cheezez!!!!
I know a lot, a lot if not all of yalls don't even know how it's like. And that's cool. I know a lot of yalls always around a big hmong population so you're not going to know how it is to miss hmong food or seeing hmong faces or hearing hmong words being spoken.. so it's going to be hard to relate...
But anyways! So when I was chillaxing in San Diego getting stood up by nkaujSee and summerBerry's friends and cousins... I had a random facebook request to join a group there and I accepted..
and I was talking to the group starter, a real cute girl! So we're messaging... and we start talking about how blah blah being away from hmongs blah blah blah etc...
And I was like "Wow, this girl get's me!"....
Eventually she just stopped talking to me... go figure!
I don't know... maybe she felt her life's to busy etc etc..
But she said one thing "looks matter"...
I was like "Wow!" in my head..
I mean, my facebook pictures are dated and aren't very flattering at all, and I don't look the same in any of the pictures...I'm sure she scoped it out...
But dang! I thought looks don't matter to girls!
Or maybe, which I think sometimes, I guess they don't feel I'm up to their standards?
These girls are educated and they have like nice nice jobs, nicer than mine for sure!
But the thing is...some of them give of the vibe like "I made it! I'm living in (citie's name here)" or talk about "Yo, I'm going to visit Europe"...etc etc etc like giving this vibe like they either want to impress other's with what they are planning to do or where they are at in life... almost in a way like a vibe of like "I'm doing things most people don't do or can't do or aren't able to... like people like you"...
Which, nothing is wrong with that...but dang! They just give off this vibe like... I don't know.. Kinda hard to explain..
I mean, I never say anything to them but if I wanted too... I could! But I just don't..
I mean... talking to me about London? Umm already been there... rode across London bridge, saw Big Ben, etc
Talking about checking out Europe.. Already been there, and plan to see more of it...
Tokyo? Been there...
Thailand? Already checked it out...
Phillipines? Got stories for there...
NYC? <---actually really is the best and biggest city in the world...alread
y ran amucked up there many times..
Phillie... yeap, checked it out already...
D.C.? Yah... doing it now..
San Diego? WEll you know how it goes..
Texas? YEah been there
L.A.? Well yeah, Took pictures with the Hollywood sign, unfortunately messed up with two Japanese chicks me and a friend met there...
Talking about living abroad? Yeap, already did it, doing it...
Australia? I'd love to check it out, if I get bored enough I guess I could just jump on a plane and zip on there...
I have a friend talking about an African Safari... makes me wanna go do one too! But we'll see!
I really want to see S. Korea first though...
I mean sometimes I feel like they give off this vibe like they wanna stack life experiences and throw it at me.. .or even just what they plan on... and I can understand that because we all have dreams too right! Working towards it all... perhaps these hmong girls need to work on their tact...I'm never going to stack my stuff up and toss it someone or flaunt it in their face, if a conversation ever came up sure I'd talk about it but I'd never throw it at them because honestly, a lot of them have a better job than me! DAng! I wish I had real impressive/not so embarrassing job.. but oh wells!
Its just horrible...
But really, at the end of the day, I just wanna hang out with a hmong girl...(not really guys... I mean... guys are cool but... kinda... kinda gross....)
But then, I think that you know, maybe they just don't wanna hang out... which is cool too... I just wish they had more tact and don't give off that vibe of ... it's just hard to explain... folks should be more carefree!
But anyways... what I've really learned from all of this is...
I need to keep in contact with people I've come across... whether they are from MN, Cali, Japan, or Europe, etc etc etc... Who knows! One day I might be in their neck of the woods and they can hang out with me!
For example... a few years back, me and a buddie was at a club... You know, just being wallflower drunks and stumbling around, and we met these two girls... they were from france! We got drinks, danced a bit... exchanged numbers... next morning my friend was like "should I call them?" anyways! We didn't call them, they already said they was down for lunch the next day... We were stupid!.. But the thing is, I never thought I'd ever be close to France... and yet here I am!
Met some girls a while back! They was from czech... and you know what? We talked.. got contact information... and I never thought I'd ever be in their neck of the world... low and behold! Here I am!
Met this girl from Singapore.... chitted and chatted... never got her contact info, just left her... but the thing is, I bet someday I'll be Singapore...
Chilling in Thailand... this girl gave me her e-mail, I never e-mailed her, she was cute too... I mean I could've had friend in Thailand! So in case one day I want to go visit I could hang out with her!
I never thought I'd ever get to see cali... Low and behold... I'm there... and even when I was there, I didn't think I'd ever even make it up to Sacramento... and then one weekend I was up there... Obviously nkaujSee being nkaujSee didn't even bother to let me know she's from there! Thanks a lot!
I met a girl from New Orleans, she said whenever I go there I could stay at her place... I need to contact her again because you never know, maybe one day I'll end up there for a Mardi Gras and need someone to hang out with.
So the biggest lesson I can I learned in life and maybe advise for the rest of yalls is... all the people you meet, whether near or far... you should be friendly to them and keep in contact, you never know when you'll be in their neck of the woods. It'd just be nice to have someone to hang out with.
Don't mind me! I'm just rambling.. but I was realling thinking about this today at work
But according to my Chinese horoscope, I really don't make a lot of long lasting friendships either so I guess that's just in me anyways.
Speaking of work! I got a funnie story.. I post it in the work forum!