Years ago in my 20s, two guys and I were at a party. A decent Hmong girl was sitting alone as her friends were up dancing with guys.
We decided to ask her for a dance--yeah, to hit on her.
So, I was the one to ask her for a friend of mine.
"No, I don't want to dance," she said. "I'm here to dance."
Embarrassed, I told the guys that next time they had to pay me to help them out like that. lol