If I tell you, it defeats the purpose.
I tend not to eat alone or be like nkausee who goes on a once in a lifetime trip without sharing that moment with her husband.
I just can't do it unless I have to like a business trip but even with that, I am still afraid to be lonely and can not see myself eating a gourmet meal. It has been a tv dinner nuking it with the provided microwave in the comp hotel room, furnished by my sponsors.
And like I said, the other partner will fail to see that either. To her, her definition is more universally like the obvious stuff like buying her things like the iPhone x as a surprise.
To her end, they tend to give up sex in thinking that is what I love and crave for. To me, sex should not be a reward. It is a given freebie that comes with the package so show me how you love me beyond that cuz I already have by not being selfish and enjoy the good things about life without her.
I know it's early and it's rare when I'm this emo on hump Wednesday.