Back in Laos and Thailand, Hmong folks didn't seem to care much about it but

[theking]

... in America, some can get pretty elaborate with their headstones..Ev en better than some members of other groups that are considered better off on average...i.e., White folks.. :












Even the Mien too.. :






Here's a general view of members of other groups' headstones at the same cemetery:

[theking]

Some headstones cost as much as the current recommended Hmong bride price...

[ProudLao]

I understand the reason behind it. You always want the best for your loved ones.

[theking]

Most the most part, correct but sadly there are a few cases where there are other reasons behind it..