There's two side to the story. Until the story unfold, I ain't taking side.
Secondly, most our parents/grandparents are were probably married arranged, bridenap, forced, met for a week and then got married, etc and most of them still live to 120 years old together. MOST couples today who CONFIDENTLY CLAIMED that the Western practice, co habitation, living together for years before marriage, dating for years before marriage is best......late r see themselves running to divorce court faster than anything else. Funny thing is, running lightening fast to divorce court is also a Western practice, go figure. The court should be saying, "you two idiots need to make this work for the kids sake, for your sake, etc", but NOPE! Instead, it's sign right here and go pay the FEE because that money will go toward fixing the pot holes in the streets, lol.
It really just boils down to the two individual having a FULL UNDERSTANDING (many factor to list here) of what a true marriage really is with equal participation/work/labor from both person.