dude told me, he has been sending $500 monthly to his girlfriend
for almost a year now
i ask him why
and he say
his girlfriend and their family are really poor
and he loves her really much and want to support her
they both webcam and talk on the phone everyday
i just inform him of all those hmong story you keep hearing
about oversea girl, using us
that if he truly love her, he need to save up, buy a plane ticket and go see her