you are not the only one is the underlying statement.
It also bends with the profile of a cheater. If I cheat on mine with you, I'll tell you the same thing. Why?
1. I know I'm not going to end up with you. I can't because I still have my other.....
2. I don't want you to get too attach. Why? It is easier for me to spin my game and you leaving me is a blessing for myself. I still have the other woman plus you dumping me voiding me of all responsibility with you. Something I wanted all along. I just hope we get in a few more lay before you find that someone else.
Remember folks. A guy who care will not share.
If he say he is not seeing anyone, you add 4 to that and if he say he lay 10, you divided by 20 which is negative lying.