I'm sorry to hear that, Rebel. I think if a relationship is too hard and you guys aren't able to communicate and understand each other and you're not on the same page with your relationship, it may be a sign that you two are not compatible. Listen to your heart and to your head and to your gut. If he makes you happy, it may be worth trying with him. But if you find yourself questioning your relationship a lot, then listen to your feelings and ask yourself why you are questioning your relationship often. He should make you feel like you're the only one and he is committed to you. If he is like Duma or Duma's jerk friend, then cut him loose. Breakups are painful but if he's not right for you, you are better off alone. You don't need a person in your life if he does not bring you consistent joy, happiness, and love. I wish you the best. If you do decide to break up with him because you feel it would be better for your mental health and it would be better for your life, then just know that it's OK to be single. There is nothing wrong with being single until the right one comes along. But really, you don't need a man to complete you. Be happy with yourself and your life. Have fun. Enjoy life, because life is too short. Don't close the door to dating other guys but you should be happy with yourself regardless if you are in a relationship or not.
Hey now. You can use my friend's case to talk about but you can not throw me off the bus like that. I am nothing like my friend. If anything, I am a "help support" kind of a guy because your mama will never tell you what it is like to be "that" guy.
For your information, I date for keep. I don't confuse my women at this stages in my life. Child's play days are over. I'm ready to play house and be done with. What I'm seeing in other people's traits are something I would of done when I was in my 20s. The game has not changed at all. It is the same game but blessed are those who are able to see it. You see, if the page was flip and I'm that girl, I'll never let it escalate it this far. I small a rat from a mile away. I know what red flags are and I execute them so that I may not be in such situation.
What you are looking for are them healthy signs. So far, I do not see it. All I see are psychotic manipulation and clever tactics that evil men would do. Now we also have psychotic but smart females out there. They would stalk and get to the bottom of this. Who else is he seeing? Why are his behaviors changing and what could be the real issue here?
But knowing myself, I will not allow myself to go down that road where I have to find out the info myself. If I was in a relationship then yeah, I need closure and I will find out but if we are dating, forget about it. I walk away with my head high and with dignity thus why I say to screen your potentials and decides early if you want to deal with all them bullchit.
If conditions were normal before covid then sure but this is covid season. People are desperate to keep what they have because the meat market is still closed and the dating scene in this covid season is making it hard for people to find a replacement. This concept then changes everything that we used to know. It is like when the going in the dating scene is tough, we ride it out like how we are riding this covid disease out. Options are limited and supplies as in our dating pools are cutting short. To dump people during this time? I'll gladly take some off of your hands and I thank you for letting them go. To some people, it is all about the art of collecting people. Once again, truth be heard. There is still no sympathy when it comes to relationship. Dog eat dog world still.