We don't go into a relationship and say yep, this is the one.
What usually happens is we gave each other a try and it usually takes one sides do the convincing as there is a viet phrase that goes "bang long di em" (google it if you want to fancy yourself) which translate by the guy pursuing, please give in and give me a chance.
Then the amazing thing happens. You wasted your time getting comfortable with one another and before you know it, you will have to marry one another. There you go, your one.....to some, your one for now
It is very rare that both party is happy to be with one another. So if you do not fall into this category then you fall into the other category and with that, I shall ask you again. Honestly now, do you really really think that the one you married is the one? The short answer is no but comes with a rebuttable... "so what choices do I have"
You guys are now married, have kids and are now stuck with one another. Go make it work.
Well I got an update with the story of my hmong friend with that salon mn mistress. I gotta go find that thread to entertain yall some more.