If if the guys and I were friends first before I met the ex and he too was able to hit it then yeah, bros before hoez
Now imagine all of your ex and the current guys that they are dating, you wanna be bff with that? You must be out of your mind.
One thing I notice about the people in my examples from above, they are all actors. With acting, they can use their acting persona and use real life stories and drama and still continue to put on that "acting face" while they deal with their ex and associates. I mean if they are celebrities, the world is looking at them so instead of hating on ex and who is sleeping with my ex, I gotta fake the funk and be friends with them. Our careers are depending on it as we may be associated with the same groups of directors and what not. No burning bridges anywhere when you are in such careers.
It is hard to explain unless you are an actor yourself. Acting = fake....