One thing I realized now that I'm at the age of my parents. You raise your child in a loving family and when they grow up, they will respect you and will raise you when you are older.
When my dad wasn't around because he was in the service, my aunt raises me. Her husband is the only guy in the family that attempted to kick me out of the house for being naughty and revolt. Mind you, I was a teenager and we kids are different because we are from the new school and he's from the old, commie school. If it wasn't for his wife, I would of left and my life would of been different. I forgive but I do not forget. After his wife died, I was old enough to fend for myself. His azz is now at a senior housing complex by the government and you know how hard it is for a person to live by themselves in their senior years. With me around, I could offer some help cuz the guy doesn't drive. It is the fact that I got verbal abused by this guy that I resented him and so we all walked our own ways.
Once in a while, the thought would creep back into my mind and I get really mad. He never apologize and I don't even think he knows how bad it is to use the "get out of my house" verbal abuse can do to a growing mind. He's an effing piece of chit anyway. Found out while my aunt was ill, he goes back to vietnam and had an affair. Not even 1 year after my aunt's passing, he went back to vietnam and married that old azz woman. I intercepted their love letters and I still have one that has her picture and a copy of their marriage certificates. Non of my family member knows about it and that letter is riding in my glove compartment ever since. He should go back to vietnam where he can have someone to bury his azz cuz I don't know what would happen if he would of die here in the USA. One thing for sure, I have a half million dollars life insurance on him that no one knows about and I can't wait to cash it out. If he goes back to vn and die over there, I can still cash out. Only thing though. If he goes back to vn, how to keep in touch or know that he dies? Ai ya, the drama continues.