Both are consenting adults and going into this show like going into any real life relationship comes with risk. Even when things don't work out, I think women shouldn't be too hard on themselves like they "lost" their value/innocence. Do men feel the same way, like they "lost" their value/innocence? NO! Why do women allow society to condemn them as the 'victim, undervalue, etc.." If she's "used" goods, he is too.
When women want equality in such standard, they also set themselves up to further being the victim. If roles were reversal, some men would love to abuse this new superpower of theirs.
Women want to pay? Sure, loving it.
Women want to open the door for men? Sure, loving it
Women want a 1 night stand by tricking the poor guy with wine and cheese? Sure, loving it more.
My pisser is now worth more than her apple pie? bring it
So you see, being a female already makes her a princess. Men die because of women. Since she is more valuable, she needs to protect herself at all times. She needs to becareful of who she is going to sleep with because the world is still a sad sad place. Women who knows should only sleep with a guy who is of the worthiness. What makes him worthy? Subjective but I'll start with a guy going broke over a chick, a guy gave her his all, a guy does something that is deem worth it for her to give him a taste of her apple pie, one that she will not regret.
Anything unlike this I just met you and lets get marry BS. Well unless you have no standards then sure, help yourself. You want to go back to the ancient days? Even arrange marriages, according to my definition of it, still gives folks the time to get to know one another. Anything but this lets get marry on the first day BS. My gosh, it is probably the easiest way to get free booty.