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Negatively in the House
« on: May 29, 2022, 01:03:43 AM »
Do y'all still want to live with toxic family or do y'all want to move out the house?




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Re: Negatively in the House
« Reply #1 on: May 29, 2022, 06:44:15 AM »
To reach one's goal, one must leave. Can't let toxic people get in the way.

There are many goals: 1. romance, 2. education, 3. career, and 4. other aspirations.


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Re: Negatively in the House
« Reply #2 on: May 30, 2022, 10:05:27 AM »
Where thereís no peace. Thereís no home.



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Re: Negatively in the House
« Reply #3 on: May 30, 2022, 02:37:05 PM »
If you can afford to move out then by all means do so. I guess it really depends on who we're talking about here. A young adult? A teenager?



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Re: Negatively in the House
« Reply #4 on: May 30, 2022, 08:25:45 PM »
To reach one's goal, one must leave. Can't let toxic people get in the way.

There are many goals: 1. romance, 2. educational, 3. career, and 4. other aspirations.

That's one way to put it in the perspective.
That's true to the extent.



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« Reply #5 on: May 30, 2022, 08:26:17 PM »
If you can afford to move out then by all means do so. I guess it really depends on who we're talking about here. A young adult? A teenager?

Parents and siblings



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Re: Negatively in the House
« Reply #6 on: May 30, 2022, 08:26:48 PM »
Where thereís no peace. Thereís no home.

Drama and toxicity 24/7



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Re: Negatively in the House
« Reply #7 on: May 30, 2022, 10:18:48 PM »
Crowded space creates stress. Live from your heart and follow your own path. Calm your heart and mind down. Listen quietly, trust your own instinct and the answer will come to you, donít try to find the answer.



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« Reply #8 on: May 31, 2022, 07:42:18 AM »
Crowded space creates stress. Live from your heart and follow your own path. Calm your heart and mind down. Listen quietly, trust your own instinct and the answer will come to you, donít try to find the answer.

How can you handle clinginess from a toxic person when he or she can't let go of you? For instance, if you're moving out on your own but the toxic person try everything malicious to get you back with him or her.



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« Reply #9 on: May 31, 2022, 08:37:04 AM »
How can you handle clinginess from a toxic person when he or she can't let go of you? For instance, if you're moving out on your own but the toxic person try everything malicious to get you back with him or her.

Restraining order.



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Re: Negatively in the House
« Reply #10 on: May 31, 2022, 08:37:56 AM »
Parents and siblings

Must still be traditional to require adult children to live at home.



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Re: Negatively in the House
« Reply #11 on: May 31, 2022, 09:12:17 AM »
Restraining order.

What happen if the toxic person doesn't abide the rule of restraining order and go overboard by killing you?



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Re: Negatively in the House
« Reply #12 on: May 31, 2022, 10:37:45 AM »
How can you handle clinginess from a toxic person when he or she can't let go of you? For instance, if you're moving out on your own but the toxic person try everything malicious to get you back with him or her.

They can try but you just need to be stronger. You need to love yourself more.



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