that just part of being a VAUV
if you don't want to do it
don't marry a hmong girl....
go married some kaydoo girl or something you know what i mean
than you won't have to do any of these stuff
also you will be really lonely
i don't mind
i kinda like this kinda of stuff
just make sure you keep the budlight coming
if the budlight stop coming, i stop chopping p=pebhmong so you know im legit