Perhaps try to solve these "challenges" by having less kids??
I know if I was still in Laos, I wouldn't want to have kids or any kid growing up in that kind of hell hole.. :
Same in the US... that's why I don't plan on getting marry and having kids.
Not being a racist but from what I actually see... the Spanish people in my town tends to have dozens of kids and majority of them are like 1-2 years apart. I know a family that has 6 kids age 2-9. They are just like Hmongs in the old country.