I know one thing though.
Hmong OG parents are the dumbest folks with their dumb gossips. You know the story about my boy that left his wife and kids for a woman that is a 2x divorcees and has grown children that even my boy would shag? Well they met in Fresno new year and I want to tell you guys that these new years are bad for business. All these hmongs from everywhere jamming into one event and there will be flirting going on and many families will be broken through undisclosed infidelity.
So my boy does it all on his own. He went by himself. 2 years later, he and this old chick of his from MN got the balls to go back to his parents house in Cali for a visit. They threw a party there so I was invited. It sounds like an engagement party or maybe voodoo blessings for the parents, I dunno but what I do know is that his mom kept on looking at me like I'm the devil. His dad told me that he liked me but he hates what I do. He said I kept on coming over to his house and take his son out partying and to the bars. It did not hit me right then and there or else I would of biatch the chit out of them for the truth. It hits me the day after to what his dad told me. The nerves of these OG i'm telling you. They are blaming an innocent man. So my boy grew up with his cousin which is also my other boy. They are more closer since they are first cousin but why not blame on him you know? You want to know why they are not going to blame on his best friend? It is to save face. No one wants to blame on your first cousin or else you get OG fighting other OG elders. They got to blame on me cuz I'm not hmong. Next time I see them to straighten things out will be who knows when. All I can do now is to talk to my boy, talk to his brother, talk to his sisters if I ever see them and talk to whoever that is connected to dude cuz I need their backs to go tell their parents the truth. I'm not the guy that took your son out and got him to meet up with some stranger chick that ruins his marriage. His wife moved on and moved in with a flip dude. His kids are now with her parents. His kids were invited to the party but no one came. I can't blame them. They were not ready to see their old man and his new future wife.
I hate to be false accused. I can't wait to biatch at his dad's face and tell him to clear my name with his parents too. Maybe, I'm just saying maybe, to go home and not fear shame, he might tell his parents that I'm the fall guy and it was my fault. I hope that is not the case. No matter, I'll biatch at them all too. I got back up evidences. What do they have?
You know what? I'll even tell them that in the Christian religion, if you falsely accuse someone without proof, that is a sin and you are going to hell. After I tell them that, I'll say, sir, madame, I don't want you guys to go to hell and then I'll leave it at that for them to think it through.
I hate primitive hmong OG elders who can not think right. I don't lose sleep over this cuz I can't control if people are dumb. I can only control on my side.