That's what society tells us. The American dream, get married, and have kids. It's the norm for married folks. My BIL said that I have no life b/c I'm not married lol. Told him, I ain't broke, got my dream car, I do what I want, and answer nobody. A lot of married and divorced folks told me not to get married but I knew a long time ago that I never would. My dreams and goals cones first.