Hey idiot, you've asked for open relationship so can't blame your Fiance

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Woman's Fiance Asks For An Open Relationship Then Shames Her For 'Connecting' With 42 Men In A Year

Opening up a monogamous relationship is a delicate process. For an established couple to make such a drastic change to their relationship, all parties involved need to be enthusiastic about the transition. Otherwise, they could end up with a similar fate to one couple on Reddit who found themselves at odds.

A woman revealed what happened after her fiance requested an open relationship.
In a since-deleted post originally posted to the Reddit forum r/relationship_advice and reposted to TikTok, a woman sought advice on whether needed to end her 4-year relationship with her fiance.

The woman explained that after her fiance found out about how many women his friend had slept with before getting engaged, he became fixated on opening their relationship. Though “disgusted by the thought,” the woman agreed after her fiance had “a major meltdown.”

Just a note — if you need to have a tantrum in order to coerce your partner into an open relationship, you’re already not off to a great start.

It turns out that the woman was actually quite good at picking up guys, hooking up with an impressive 42 men in one year. Her fiance, however, only had “two really bad hookups from apps.” She wrote that he threw another fit after finding out that his girlfriend had experienced more success in her sexual endeavors than he had. According to the post, he kept repeating "You've slept with 20 times the number I have? 20 TIMES?”

The woman wrote in her post that although she had enjoyed her time seeing other people, she had never been interested in an open relationship in the first place and would have been willing to stop at any time.

When she suggested that they return to being an exclusive couple, her fiance refused.
Instead, he wanted to impose a pathetic rule: that she would have to “take a break until he got to 10,” and then she could “go out and meet someone new every five new girls he sleeps with.” The woman wrote that she found this "ridiculous."