Posting Here Because Nobody...

[Believe_N_Me]

...really goes into Relationship forums.

If any of you have had an unhinged ex, how long did that person continue to create drama for you?

Why do you think your ex was so angry and bitter that they felt compelled to create drama for you?

Was your ex always this drama-filled in the relationship and how long did it take for you to break it off?

Did your ex's drama create problems for your new relationship(s)?

Are you still in contact or connected to this ex? If so, why?

Share your crazy ex stories in this thread.

[Visualmon]

Wallflower ain't answering my posts anymore because we have our opinions and misunderstandi ngs about religion.

[Believe_N_Me]

Who is Wallflower?

I don't dispute the fact that there are people who are drama queens, but my strong intuition also says that when someone is very upset about a breakup that they get aggressive, it's only because the other person did something really crappy.

Sometimes they're aggressive because the other person is cheating on them. So in other words, they're not even ex, just an upset girlfriend. Hopefully, the so-called crazy ex will dump him instead of creating drama.

If a person cheated on me I have too much dignity and self-respect to call up the other woman. She can have him.

[Believe_N_Me]

I don't have any crazy exes but I do have an ex with a wife who was definitely insecure.

I don't like it when they purposely stake you out to try and befriend you. We don't need to know each other like that.

Then there was this one guy that I never dated. There was a lot of mutual attraction but how was I supposed to know that he wanted more? We talked for a whole month then he had to go home, which was out of state. When he moved to my state three months later, I was already married. He kept cornering me at events and even befriended the husband. Yeah, he invited the husband on camping trips, fishing, etc. The husband didn't know until my mom hinted to him that it wasn't a good idea to hang out with this guy.   

[hmgROCK]

it usually us that is doing the stalker

i put apple airtag GPS tracking in your car
and download apps on your phone to snoope

 

and blackmail you for $$$

jk

[Hung_Low]

Never had a crazy Ex...  Majority of them are just 1NiteStand.
Past GFs (50/50) my fault and theirs...
I got dumped by only 3 girls (well I consider only two because the other one was a GF on a dare only). And the two that dump me - live in different state from me during the dating (no Social Media or cell phone back then).

[Reporter]

Never had a crazy Ex...  Majority of them are just 1NiteStand.
Past GFs (50/50) my fault and theirs...
I got dumped by only 3 girls (well I consider only two because the other one was a GF on a dare only). And the two that dump me - live in different state from me during the dating (no Social Media or cell phone back then).

The husband and wife are 30 years apart?

[Reporter]

I had an ex I did many good things for, but she continued to cheat. So, I
let her go after making sure she was in good hands.

But all these 27 years after she still tries to
create drama in my life whenever she finds out about
any new relationship I’m in.

[hmgROCK]

Let those EX go
Stop living in the past
Don’t even bring it up to your spouse

Will Just cause drama and hardship for you

My wife is the jealousy type
I will be divorced and homeless sooo fast

BEFORE I EVEN GET A CHANCE TO TYPE THIS…..

 

[DuMa]

I guess I'm blessed.  Most of mine are body counts that turns into a relationship.  Psycho biatch stories yes but I'm always  a step ahead of the game.  I'm blessed to see non of them again and if I do see them and if they want some of this, bring it.  I'll add another body count to my score.   

[Cali Guy]

Nothing to share about unhinged exes because they’re aren’t crazy but the craziest thing that happened to me was, got one of my tires slashed by what I deduced is the boyfriend. I just had a short chat with this girl one night and a few nights afterward, my tire was cut. I considered them both crazy LOL

Recently, a neighbor’s crazy ex, all windows and windshield broken and all tires slashed on the Mercedes. That’s not everything, all windows of the house assessable from the front were broken. Should have put the vehicle in the garage.

[hmgROCK]

Nothing to share about unhinged exes because they’re aren’t crazy but the craziest thing that happened to me was, got one of my tires slashed by what I deduced is the boyfriend. I just had a short chat with this girl one night and a few nights afterward, my tire was cut. I considered them both crazy LOL

Recently, a neighbor’s crazy ex, all windows and windshield broken and all tires slashed on the Mercedes. That’s not everything, all windows of the house assessable from the front were broken. Should have put the vehicle in the garage.

Lmao

Thats was me
Don’t try taking it to DISCOUNT TIRES
They don’t fix slash tires

 

Next time

Its your car being KEYED

[Visualmon]

Who is Wallflower?

She's my PH pen pal who had just ghost me for awhile. She couldn't handle my super whooper intellect.

[DuMa]

She's my PH pen pal who had just ghost me for awhile. She couldn't handle my super whooper intellect.

Don't feel bad.  She's not that into you because if you did not marry her then someone else did.  I think you were talking to a married chick.  I know because I met her and her sister before in that one trip to the MN.

Oh gosh, now you think I'm a tier better than you when it comes to digital pimping.   

[Believe_N_Me]

There are a lot of people who aren't healed from their ex(es), and that's why they're either the person creating drama or the person always quick to frequently talk badly about them. They may no longer be in love or care about the ex(es), but they still feel a lot of anger, resentment, and shame for having been in toxic relationship(s). This is not healthy for the new/current person because it just means that they're being used as a distraction. If the new/current person is more attractive, then the other person is probably hoping it will be easier to help detach from their disappointment and shame.

When you see someone put in less effort with the new person who is more attractive than the ex, it means the new person is nothing but a void filler. If you're the new person and you know that you're more attractive and have a lot more to offer than their ex, but you don't feel that this person is putting effort with you like they did with the ex, then it means you need to start detaching. They are just using you to cope with their trauma.