Remember Tom Selleck's 3 Men & a Baby? I say if you can raise a baby to be

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..a good productive member of society, more power to you!

We're a gay throuple who've spent over $170,000 on surrogacy and adoption — there are a lot of hidden costs, and it's more expensive than you think

Ben, Mitch, and Benjamin live in Los Angeles with their 20-month-old adopted daughter, Tegan. The throuple have spent over four years and more than $170,000 on having their children. They want to draw attention to the hidden and emotional costs of adoption and surrogacy.