I noticed that in the Youtube Hmong community, we have so many channels that only talk about relationship drama, BUT we don't have any channels addressing how to heal from them. Simply type in May Vang, Nancy Yang, Jenny Vang or Mab Vaj and you'll find volumes of situationship horror stories BUT where are the Youtubers who offer ways to heal? Who will explain why this happened and that a large part of it relates to attachment disorders?
On the contrary, in the mainstream community there are hundreds of therapists, counselors, and relationship experts giving advise on how to recover from these traumatic experiences. Honestly, if the Hmong men and women who have suffered trauma from being in a situationship could only understand that they may have been dealing with someone who has a disorder or is narcissistic, it may help them to heal.
