If you think a Hmong wife is irritated by your Hmong parents, then a Chinese one will definitely despise them.
The only way for them to get along is if your parents stay out of her way.
THAT IS JUST THE STRAIGHT TRUTH.
Men who marry non-Hmong are not looking to be part of their clan or the Hmong community. Plain and simple.
100% theking doesn't expect his Chinese wife to do shyt for his mom the way his older brother's Hmong wife is expected to. If theking's Chinese wife shows up at their clan's dinner events, that's already effort on her part. She doesn't have to nor is she expected to slave away in the kitchen or uphold any of the expectations that Hmong wives need to show to their husband's clan.
Watch, theking is going to come in here and say some silly crap like, "That's not true. My wife bought my mom a gift for her birthday."
Dude, anybody can breadcrumb a person to make it look like they care.
Heck, give me your address and even I'll send your mom a sweater for Christmas. lol