saki saki, interesting story..
Strange as it maybe... I know that our Hmong culture is heavily into those belief.. You see I'm married into a family that does not have any sons.. Therefore I'm like the only son that my FIL would have.. Anyways after we did all those stuff and bury him.. Out of the sister's and my wife, never had any dreams of their father...as far as I know..but I don't know now if they have had any or not.
What I'm trying to say here is that I don't know jack shyt about our culture.... personally. And my FIL would come and visit me in my dreams... I mean a lot of times..
(So anyways my 1st kid was a boy... And my FIL loved him a lot, (he helped baby sat my kid from day1. And up to 6 years, before his passing)...Cuz he doesn't have a son of his own.. So during the last day of the funeral, he came to me in a dream and asked if I took my son to visit him... at his funeral.. I said " yeah I did".. Then he said " he was just wondering cause he misses my son").
Sometimes he would just come into my dreams and tell me that he misses my son and my family.( My wife, son and me). You see I'm not from their last name clan... I have my own clan. So you would of thought that if something like this were to happen. It'll happen to the other family clan(s).. Not you.. Cuz you're the SIL from the jungle LOL..
As for the back door being open in my garage. I personally don't know if it was just the wind that blew it open. But on second thought you would of had to twist the door knob to open it. Even if the wind blew it open, it had to blow hard to unlatch it self from the hole..LOL.
Anyways I now do, believe in those dreams... like them OG's.. You would of never thought of these things until you encounter it.
If you read my story about my gall bladder dream. I thought that I would of had to do those jiggle bells on me that time. But at the end it was a medical problems.. And I had never had them OG's do any jiggle bells on me, ever or tie any strings on me either.. I don't know... I might be a bit older and wiser or something. LOL
The last time before this... My MIL was getting re-marry.. My FIL came into my dream and told me that my MIL was planning to get marry and that her new hubby already went and told my FIL that he's gonna marry my MIL... And the dude was like asking permission from my FIL. To okay them getting marry..
Talk about OG's stuff...LOL I should start a thread about pass families revisiting family members after death.. But i'm too lazy to do that.LOL But if someone start a thread about it.. I would put my two cents in.LOL