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Title: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 13, 2014, 10:35:56 AM
If you like a man who is trying to make contact with you, do you give him hints?  I'm trying to start a conversation with a girl or two but they seem to be indifferent.  They have given me their numbers.  Sometimes they just do not reply to my text or answer my call.  I can't say they do not like me because I thought they would be lucky to have a man like me. So before I ditch them, I want to know if it is natural for woman to pretend they do not care?  I believe that we must both work on it if we both care about it.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 13, 2014, 10:56:38 AM
Woman do chase man when the guy knows how to play the game. The hard part, you have to keep them interested and keep up the gig once you  get the number. If it feels you are trying too hard and their response isn't so good, it is best to cut your loss and move on.

What did college teach you about woman? I kid... ;D

I did not go to college to learn about women.  That's why I graduated with a degree and without a woman.  College is where you go get a degree and a wife.  My advisor didn't tell me this.

I just want to be sure if that's how women work.  Do they make the men do all the chasing and play hard to get?  Because guys like me are lazy.  I don't even drive 2 hours to visit a girl. Don't expect me to call you 5 times without picking up the phone.  I know what I'm worth and if I feel you are not interested, I'm going.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: proudlao on September 13, 2014, 11:12:56 AM
They certainly do, they are just slow  ;D
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: proudlao on September 13, 2014, 11:27:42 AM
And when they don't want you no longer, you are no longer a nice guy  ;D
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 13, 2014, 11:39:03 AM
Well, sometimes you have to invest 2hrs of drive time for a woman.  You can't expect them to come calling if you can't past your own zip code.

You can't be cheap, allow you to be seen as cheap as well as tell a woman you have money.

The other thing is, go with the flow... That's my motto. Feel out the discussion and go with it.

I was born cheap.  One look at me and a woman knows I'm a poor guy. 

My car reminds them of their parents car when they first arrived in America. 

I cut my own hair.  It has no style.  Every hair is just sticking up.  They are all the same length.

All my clothes are from second hand store except for my underwear and shocks.

I drive a car that's 10x cheaper than my Hmong friends's car.

I bought a house that is way cheaper than my income would allow me to.

I just feel poor.  I feel out of place in a way.  As one woman confessed in our group that she was from a farming family and that she never felt belong in the profession she is in.  She felt like she was an impostor.  I felt similar.   Twenty something years ago I was catching fish with my hands in the muddy stream somewhere in Thailand. 

Sounds to me like I'm doing everything to get rejected by a woman.  Will there be a woman who can see me beyond the image I'm projecting and see the boy who used to run in the mud with one hand holding a bag of fighting fish?
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: proudlao on September 13, 2014, 11:40:18 AM
Better the sex...

That would be a short live. Don't rely on sex when it comes to relationship. Sex is great and all, but in the end everyone knows what work best in a relationship.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: proudlao on September 13, 2014, 11:41:27 AM
I was born cheap.  One look at me and a woman knows I'm a poor guy. 

My car reminds them of their parents car when they first arrived in America. 

I cut my own hair.  It has no style.  Every hair is just sticking up.  They are all the same length.

All my clothes are from second hand store except for my underwear and shocks.

I drive a car that's 10x cheaper than my Hmong friends's car.

I bought a house that is way cheaper than my income would allow me to.

I just feel poor.  I feel out of place in a way.  As one woman confessed in our group that she was from a farming family and that she never felt belong in the profession she is in.  She felt like she was an impostor.  I felt similar.   Twenty something years ago I was catching fish with my hands in the muddy stream somewhere in Thailand. 

Sounds to me like I'm doing everything to get rejected by a woman.  Will there be a woman who can see me beyond the image I'm projecting and see the boy who used to run in the mud with one hand holding a bag of fighting fish?

Always be true to who you are. The one that want you for who you are will come along.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 13, 2014, 11:42:15 AM
How old are you? I know a couple of 30-36 year old women. One total home girl virgin and the other highly educated...

They are a good match for me.  Hook me up.  One thing though I'm picky about look.   I know I'm ugly but I still like a cute girl. :)
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 13, 2014, 11:52:37 AM
You are a lost cause man if you think that way.... Those typical hmong who wants korean Kpop s/o.

Should I change my name to a Korean name?
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 13, 2014, 11:53:58 AM
I will hate to say it but Very few woman in the USA will go for a guy like that. You might need to go to Laos.

I don't know if you are purposely making yourself like this on here but just imagine a woman who has interest in you describe the same thing you just did. Is that a big turn off?

Let's say you are after a older career woman,

She would want you to dress well, drive a decent car, and act the part. You can't be a phd and be a bum. Or be a CFO of a company and drive a yugo. Frankly, woman are shallow sometimes and likes to brag to their friends and family who they bag.

Very sad.  Life it seems is all about deceiving the opposite sex.  I hate playing that game.

If I were a bird, I would pluck all my colorful hair.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 13, 2014, 12:27:30 PM
Yes we do chase men but only the one we are interested in getting to know or is worth our time.

Could it be that they know I'm too good for them so they reject me fearing I might reject them?
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: AOZ on September 13, 2014, 03:06:17 PM
she not responding.... she not interested.  LOLs.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Surikoo2078 on September 13, 2014, 08:12:06 PM
Yes we do chase men but only the one we are interested in getting to know or is worth our time.

You said it well sister. :D

@duckwingduck: what about me? LOL.  ;)  Stop being so picky and upgrade yourself  :knuppel2:
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 14, 2014, 11:17:32 AM
You said it well sister. :D

@duckwingduck: what about me? LOL.  ;)  Stop being so picky and upgrade yourself  :knuppel2:

You haven't even shown me a photo of yourself. 

True, I should not be so picky and also should wear expensive clothes and get a $50 hair cut.  :)
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 14, 2014, 11:18:00 AM
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DTZ6choGL4U

Here ya go duck!

What is it about?  Is it supposed to teach me how to pick up women?
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Surikoo2078 on September 14, 2014, 04:15:46 PM
What is it about?  Is it supposed to teach me how to pick up women?

That video is about how to get in trouble if you pick up a woman like that. LOL. If you use this method of cock blocking, be careful of who you're approaching.  ;) Hope you know some self defense moves.  O0
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 14, 2014, 04:21:36 PM
That video is about how to get in trouble if you pick up a woman like that. LOL. If you use this method of cock blocking, be careful of who you're approaching.  ;) Hope you know some self defense moves.  O0

ok i will watch it when i have access to youtube.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Surikoo2078 on September 14, 2014, 04:42:26 PM
You haven't even shown me a photo of yourself. 

True, I should not be so picky and also should wear expensive clothes and get a $50 hair cut.  :)

Photo? Oops...LOL.

O0 Being toooooo picky will not get you anywhere. :D
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: BTW on September 14, 2014, 08:06:32 PM
If you like a man who is trying to make contact with you, do you give him hints?  I'm trying to start a conversation with a girl or two but they seem to be indifferent.  They have given me their numbers.  Sometimes they just do not reply to my text or answer my call.  I can't say they do not like me because I thought they would be lucky to have a man like me. So before I ditch them, I want to know if it is natural for woman to pretend they do not care?  I believe that we must both work on it if we both care about it.

Hey you! You're such a smooth operator, I've been watching you in action!  ;) ;D

If you want a woman why does she need to chase you? Put some effort and work into it instead of trying to be cool or else watch another man take what you want! If you think about it, we all get the opportunity to meet potential mates, we just don't act on it because we may have noticed something that doesn't meet our expectations. It's not often we meet someone who makes us think they could be a good match for us, maybe 1 in 10 people we meet....this is after we gotten over the intro and they've given you some indication that they want to get to know you. If a woman is still communicating with you, she likes you, so ask her out! When in doubt, you should still ask her out! Sometimes wonen are on the fence about what they feel for a man and they won't pursue for fear of leading you on but being persistent during this stage may be what she needs to see to make that decision about you. Be brave!!!  :)

Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 14, 2014, 08:22:32 PM
Hey you! You're such a smooth operator, I've been watching you in action!  ;) ;D

If you want a woman why does she need to chase you? Put some effort and work into it instead of trying to be cool or else watch another man take what you want! If you think about it, we all get the opportunity to meet potential mates, we just don't act on it because we may have noticed something that doesn't meet our expectations. It's not often we meet someone who makes us think they could be a good match for us, maybe 1 in 10 people we meet....this is after we gotten over the intro and they've given you some indication that they want to get to know you. If a woman is still communicating with you, she likes you, so ask her out! When in doubt, you should still ask her out! Sometimes wonen are on the fence about what they feel for a man and they won't pursue for fear of leading you on but being persistent during this stage may be what she needs to see to make that decision about you. Be brave!!!  :)

Thanks for the encouragement.  That's very helpful.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: nightrider on September 14, 2014, 10:39:34 PM
I think it's always good to try the 1-2 approach before you ditch them. 3 Would be putting yourself too low. I was in similar situations too. If they're not going to give you the time of day, you shouldn't either.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: minorcharacter on September 15, 2014, 09:01:12 AM
When I was younger an older girl chased me down and pinched me once.  I don't remember why, but I developed the biggest crush for her afterwards.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Reporter on September 15, 2014, 09:29:32 AM
If you like a man who is trying to make contact with you, do you give him hints?  I'm trying to start a conversation with a girl or two but they seem to be indifferent.  They have given me their numbers.  Sometimes they just do not reply to my text or answer my call.  I can't say they do not like me because I thought they would be lucky to have a man like me. So before I ditch them, I want to know if it is natural for woman to pretend they do not care?  I believe that we must both work on it if we both care about it.

You didn't pressure them to give you their numbers, did you?

If they are traditional, they won't call. If they are a bit modern, they'll even call. Remember that a lot of women these days even travel across the globe to chase down men, especially young men from Laos.

Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on September 15, 2014, 09:31:23 AM
You didn't pressure them to give you their numbers, did you?

If they are traditional, they won't call. If they are a bit modern, they'll even call. Remember that a lot of women these days even travel across the globe to chase down men, especially young men from Laos.

I suspect they are on the traditional side a little.  They are older woman (around 30).  They have never married.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Reporter on September 15, 2014, 12:52:41 PM
I suspect they are on the traditional side a little.  They are older woman (around 30).  They have never married.

I see.

I don't care too much about women who don't make efforts.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Minion1 on September 15, 2014, 01:21:28 PM
I was born cheap.  One look at me and a woman knows I'm a poor guy. 

My car reminds them of their parents car when they first arrived in America. 

I cut my own hair.  It has no style.  Every hair is just sticking up.  They are all the same length.

All my clothes are from second hand store except for my underwear and shocks.

I drive a car that's 10x cheaper than my Hmong friends's car.

I bought a house that is way cheaper than my income would allow me to.

I just feel poor.  I feel out of place in a way.  As one woman confessed in our group that she was from a farming family and that she never felt belong in the profession she is in.  She felt like she was an impostor.  I felt similar.   Twenty something years ago I was catching fish with my hands in the muddy stream somewhere in Thailand. 

Sounds to me like I'm doing everything to get rejected by a woman.  Will there be a woman who can see me beyond the image I'm projecting and see the boy who used to run in the mud with one hand holding a bag of fighting fish?

Do you embrace being poor/cheap?  I refuse to be poor, rather than I'm broke.  If you have a job, a home over your head with a stocked refrigerator then you're far better off than many Americans. 

Your issue with rejection by women: I think it's all in how a man carries himself.  When I'm going into a relationship I don't think about if that person is good or too good to be with me.  I keep an open mind and go with the flow.  If you keep thinking you're not good enough then perhaps you're not good enough to be with her. 

Truth is we never know if we're good for one another.  Time can only tell.  We get to know that person and see if both personalities click.  Most times it won't, and some times it will.  You don't wake up to a wonderful relationship.  You work on it every day. 
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Minion1 on September 15, 2014, 01:24:37 PM
Oh and yes, I have chased men in my high school days.  But it's best to let the guy do the chasing.  It is the guy that has to decide of the marriage, although nowadays it should be a mutual decision that marriage is the goal. 
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Minion1 on September 15, 2014, 02:06:33 PM
Sweet Tears, some guys are shy but that's no excuse. He should at least approach you about hanging out or tell someone he likes you.  That would be his regret.  Most women are not hard to read at all.  If they like a guy, they show it in their body language and some verbal language. 

Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: misschuey on September 15, 2014, 02:24:19 PM
They are a good match for me.  Hook me up.  One thing though I'm picky about look.   I know I'm ugly but I still like a cute girl. :)

Obviously looks are important to you. What makes you think it's just not important as well to the opposite sex? Unless you have a boat load of money, perhaps you can spend a little more time and money (judging from your previous posts) investing in yourself so you'll be more physically appealing to girls.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Missterious on September 15, 2014, 06:57:22 PM
Hell yea. I chased and chased and chased and I caught him!
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: NkaujNom on November 18, 2014, 02:50:54 PM
If you like a man who is trying to make contact with you, do you give him hints?  I'm trying to start a conversation with a girl or two but they seem to be indifferent.  They have given me their numbers.  Sometimes they just do not reply to my text or answer my call.  I can't say they do not like me because I thought they would be lucky to have a man like me. So before I ditch them, I want to know if it is natural for woman to pretend they do not care?  I believe that we must both work on it if we both care about it.

Oh yes, of course! It is normal for girls to pretend they don't care, occasionally. If it's all the time that she is ignoring you or pretending "not to care", chances are is that it's true and she really is not interested. Don't waste your time, you're setting yourself up for nothing good.

Women like being chased around too, ya know?
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Niello on December 08, 2014, 11:33:13 AM
I believe if you like someone enough you'll chase them but for just awhile. Can't be chasing someone who doesn't like you in return. :D
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Jojo on December 08, 2014, 10:09:20 PM
If you like a man who is trying to make contact with you, do you give him hints?  I'm trying to start a conversation with a girl or two but they seem to be indifferent.  They have given me their numbers.  Sometimes they just do not reply to my text or answer my call.  I can't say they do not like me because I thought they would be lucky to have a man like me. So before I ditch them, I want to know if it is natural for woman to pretend they do not care?  I believe that we must both work on it if we both care about it.

Sure women/girls do.  How lasting it is is the biggest question.  I would totally discourage my daughter from. Chazing men because men are not worth chasing.  We all know why don't we???
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: theking on December 08, 2014, 10:32:11 PM
NUFF SAID!

http://youtu.be/U5SRDjI7d2Y (http://youtu.be/U5SRDjI7d2Y)
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on December 09, 2014, 09:07:28 AM
I think if a woman sees that a good man shows interests in her and she also likes him, she should also put some work into it.  A lot of good guys simply don't put a lot of effort in chasing women.  Since women leave the chasing to men, the desperate and often bad boys do most of the chasing.  So, next time if you see a good man shows interests in you, make sure you capture him. 
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: dlabtsi_os on December 16, 2014, 01:27:58 PM
If you are to rate yourself from 1 to 10 on looks, personality, and communication. Where do you fall?

Looks: 7
Personality:10
Communication: 5

Then you will need to work in the communication. ..

Me

Looks: 6
Personality: 8
Communication: 8
Charisma: 7
Motivation: 4
Intelligence: 7
Agreeable: 8
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: NkaujNom on December 17, 2014, 10:13:03 AM
I think if a woman sees that a good man shows interests in her and she also likes him, she should also put some work into it.  A lot of good guys simply don't put a lot of effort in chasing women.  Since women leave the chasing to men, the desperate and often bad boys do most of the chasing.  So, next time if you see a good man shows interests in you, make sure you capture him.

I'd love me a rare, good guy to chase me for a change.  :D
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on December 17, 2014, 12:17:24 PM
I'd love me a rare, good guy to chase me for a change.  :D

Give me your info, I will try to do some chasing this time around.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Phaj_ej on December 24, 2014, 12:55:48 AM
My honest review of myself

Looks: 7
personality: 8-9
communication : 8-10
Guts: 7-9
Friendlyness: 7-9

By the time you read this I have already slept with 1 woman three days ago visiting her for the first time and she wants me to visit her again. Shes an older lady and she claims she love everything about me. She said I made her feel so good.
I usually go for the kill on the 1 and 2 date, visit.  How? Give them verbal sex and when they see you, they want to see your talk in action.
How do I do it?

As one bro to another, I'll help you out. Use these tips and you'll find a gf or wife or gf benefit.

Usually, mature ladies know what they want. They want a guy with personality, dressed well, have guts, take charge and have some money and a car.

Women love when sweet words flowing into their ears and wrapping around their body.  Practice your tone, your laughter, your words and learn how to make a girl laugh. No women wants a mean tone guy.

On the first phone call, i am a gentlemen like and do not express any sort of intimacy.  The second or third call is luring the women to talk about sex.   Telling you and you trying it is two different things. Practices.

I give the women dirty jokes and make them laugh.  Once my sweet mouth opens, they already feel and imagine being touched and kissed by me.  Maybe I am good at describing how I make love.

Women love a men who is not afraid to give it all to her. Joke with her, make her laugh, ask her what she likes and cater to her liking. 

The women I have chase for sex, well they missed me all the time. They wanted to married me, but I told them I'm not ready yet and move on until I find the right girl.

Why do she misses me so much?
I can't tell you that part, but after sex, they will get me things I do not ask for and cook me food when I'm in town.

Okay, I'll help you brothers out. 

It's much more than sex..any women who thinks i don't know what I am talking about them pm  me and I'll tell them what they want to hear.

Goodluck duck.
use my guideline because I am the living proof that it works. Also learned from the best in the game.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Jenlee9 on December 24, 2014, 01:19:53 AM
The game of cat and mouse is hard and confusing. Guess this this why I'm still single too :(
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: lifemystery on January 12, 2015, 02:20:14 AM
If you like a man who is trying to make contact with you, do you give him hints?  I'm trying to start a conversation with a girl or two but they seem to be indifferent.  They have given me their numbers.  Sometimes they just do not reply to my text or answer my call.  I can't say they do not like me because I thought they would be lucky to have a man like me. So before I ditch them, I want to know if it is natural for woman to pretend they do not care?  I believe that we must both work on it if we both care about it.
  ;D
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: MSV on January 25, 2015, 07:12:46 PM
Phab-ej, don't be so sure of yourself!  ;D

Duckwingduck, every woman is different. As for me, I do chase what I like too. But I'm not going to be all desperate about it. I'll drop some hints here and there and go the extra mile when needed. Can't help that I like to be the predator sometimes. Hehehe

Here's the big difference in how men and women chase though.....

MEN: Very persistent and won't give up. He'll go to the extremes to get what he desires.
WOMEN: Chase him for a while. If he's not showing interest....on to the next.  ;)
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on January 26, 2015, 05:13:36 PM
Phab-ej, don't be so sure of yourself!  ;D

Duckwingduck, every woman is different. As for me, I do chase what I like too. But I'm not going to be all desperate about it. I'll drop some hints here and there and go the extra mile when needed. Can't help that I like to be the predator sometimes. Hehehe

Here's the big difference in how men and women chase though.....

MEN: Very persistent and won't give up. He'll go to the extremes to get what he desires.
WOMEN: Chase him for a while. If he's not showing interest....on to the next.  ;)

I chase women the way women chase men. 
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: MSV on January 29, 2015, 12:34:02 AM
I chase women the way women chase men.

Men who are persistent usually ends us getting the girl he's after. You know why? Here is another difference b/t us.

Men: Won't give in to someone they aren't interested in. Doesn't matter how much the girl pleases him.
Women: With our soft hearts, we give in to those whom do good to us and will be there for us at anytime of day.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: The_Pragmatist on January 29, 2015, 12:53:53 AM
Men who are persistent usually ends us getting the girl he's after. You know why? Here is another difference b/t us.

Men: Won't give in to someone they aren't interested in. Doesn't matter how much the girl pleases him.
Women: With our soft hearts, we give in to those whom do good to us and will be there for us at anytime of day.

I understand why you would say that. There are those with the "traditional" mind set who believe that they call all the shots. Or they are the "controlling/bossy" type and will always want it their way. However, not all men are like that and not all women have soft hearts. There are evil and cold-hearted people on both sides. This is reality, not a stereotypical statement. You, perhaps, are speaking for yourself, but not for all women.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: The_Pragmatist on January 30, 2015, 03:56:49 PM
In general, both sides chase each other. I've had several women that were chasing me (1 Puerto Rican lady, 3 Hmong ladies, at least 1 white girl...rest of the white girls might be shy...and another Asian girl). I regret not taking those chances. The place was right, but the time was wrong. (But I'm staying true to my Hmong ladies. If not, then I'll expand my options.  O0  :P ) .
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on January 30, 2015, 04:10:48 PM
Men who are persistent usually ends us getting the girl he's after. You know why? Here is another difference b/t us.

Men: Won't give in to someone they aren't interested in. Doesn't matter how much the girl pleases him.
Women: With our soft hearts, we give in to those whom do good to us and will be there for us at anytime of day.

I only express my interest and may attempt to get to know them.  If they don't show any interest, I will just move on.  I'm not the guy who over sell myself.  I don't want to trick or fool a girl to like me. 
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: The_Pragmatist on January 30, 2015, 08:23:08 PM
I only express my interest and may attempt to get to know them.  If they don't show any interest, I will just move on.  I'm not the guy who over sell myself.  I don't want to trick or fool a girl to like me.

She came across immoral men and therefore made that statement. It's easy to be stereotypical about both sides. I came across a player, but I still believe there are good hmong women out there.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: AOZ on January 31, 2015, 10:24:39 AM
playing field is now changed.....  women chase men all the time.... esp in this day and age.... women are empower... so she will come after you like a hawk...

 ;D ;D ;D ;D

hope my girls will be more reserved and not too aggressive in this area... don't want them to scare my potential vauv to bes.... lols...
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: The_Pragmatist on January 31, 2015, 02:38:23 PM
playing field is now changed.....  women chase men all the time.... esp in this day and age.... women are empower... so she will come after you like a hawk...

 ;D ;D ;D ;D

hope my girls will be more reserved and not too aggressive in this area... don't want them to scare my potential vauv to bes.... lols...

Lol...looks like you know what's coming... (jail-baiters not allowed lol)  :P
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: unmatchable on February 01, 2015, 11:36:37 PM
My honest review of myself

Looks: 7
personality: 8-9
communication : 8-10
Guts: 7-9
Friendlyness: 7-9

By the time you read this I have already slept with 1 woman three days ago visiting her for the first time and she wants me to visit her again. Shes an older lady and she claims she love everything about me. She said I made her feel so good.
I usually go for the kill on the 1 and 2 date, visit.  How? Give them verbal sex and when they see you, they want to see your talk in action.
How do I do it?

As one bro to another, I'll help you out. Use these tips and you'll find a gf or wife or gf benefit.

Usually, mature ladies know what they want. They want a guy with personality, dressed well, have guts, take charge and have some money and a car.

Women love when sweet words flowing into their ears and wrapping around their body.  Practice your tone, your laughter, your words and learn how to make a girl laugh. No women wants a mean tone guy.

On the first phone call, i am a gentlemen like and do not express any sort of intimacy.  The second or third call is luring the women to talk about sex.   Telling you and you trying it is two different things. Practices.

I give the women dirty jokes and make them laugh.  Once my sweet mouth opens, they already feel and imagine being touched and kissed by me.  Maybe I am good at describing how I make love.

Women love a men who is not afraid to give it all to her. Joke with her, make her laugh, ask her what she likes and cater to her liking. 

The women I have chase for sex, well they missed me all the time. They wanted to married me, but I told them I'm not ready yet and move on until I find the right girl.

Why do she misses me so much?
I can't tell you that part, but after sex, they will get me things I do not ask for and cook me food when I'm in town.

Okay, I'll help you brothers out. 

It's much more than sex..any women who thinks i don't know what I am talking about them pm  me and I'll tell them what they want to hear.

Goodluck duck.
use my guideline because I am the living proof that it works. Also learned from the best in the game.

Guts: 7-9

What's your name and what city/state do you live in?
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: floaty on April 11, 2015, 11:49:23 PM
 If they like you, they will run marathons to get to you. If you are just potentials or an option, then you have to run.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: VillainousHero on April 12, 2015, 12:10:36 AM
oh gosh...digging up graveyard threads...well I suppose I'll read from page one then... ;D

For the record...when I'm chased, I usually climb a tree and swing like a monkey.  Them cougars usually give up.  ;D
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: floaty on April 12, 2015, 01:46:46 AM
Did I? Lol oh well. Read up. Keep swinging from them trees, I'm sure young ones will join ya.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: VillainousHero on April 12, 2015, 01:50:41 AM
LOL...I'm 40 yrs young monkey!...young ones half my age can't even climb trees half as well as I can.  ;D

That kind of math just confused my brain - my half brain.  :2funny:

...and people think I'm lying and I should be only in late twenties... :2funny:
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: floaty on April 12, 2015, 02:25:19 AM
You're still young.  If you're waiting for young ones, you might have to climb down that tree. If you're waiting for someone your age, you might have to teach them how to swing alongside with you. If you're waiting for older ones, just wait up in that tree, they will come.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: VillainousHero on April 12, 2015, 02:44:54 AM
LOL...waiting kind of implies I'm doing nothing - like looking or being noticed or such. 

I find it weird, when walking through the mall or other public places.  That I actually begin to notice how other women are always looking.  Even more awkward to me, is that often they're with another man and their eyes are not fixated on him, but is looking around.

Do women do this intentionally or involuntarily?  Because it would be very weird if said, younger women half my age are looking at me.  Do I have weird thing on my face????  Like when I go eat buffet and a young couple is on a date.  I caught her looking at me when she should've stay focused on her date.  Am I pigging out so bad that she noticed me or I have that something on my face?

Clueless Monkey swinging on the tree here.  ;D  If only those female store clerks paid half of that attention to me, they would've gotten a sale.  I hate going up to one of them asking for directions...A man isn't supposed to be lost in the store.  :-X  I also hate how sometimes I catch their eyes looking down there instead of my lips.  Is my face that ugly?  Mouth talking up here on face, not down there by crotch.

Ooopss...I've seen to have gone off on a tangent.  I may have to just check to see if my fly was open...ooops.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: floaty on April 12, 2015, 03:10:58 AM
Are you wearing skinny jeans? Or crotch jeans? Lol is your nuts saggin and not tucked in place securely? Are you secretly get excited without knowing? Women will stare, if any of this applies. If not, the answer is that, they're wondering why it's flat.

Women and men are the same, still looking around. Still checking out people even if they have someone by their side. Doesn't mean that you are handsome or ugly. Maybe they are wondering why you are alone? Why you have someone hot with you? In your case, I don't know. Because I don't know you. Share a picture and I will most likely tell you why some may stare.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: VillainousHero on April 12, 2015, 03:32:47 AM
Ah...I guess I'm the naïve one who doesn't spend time checking others out when I have someone.

...I used to body build a lot and was not able to wear skinny jeans and flat pants, all are nut killers.

and I just remember how pale face I am and how easily sun burned I get...I guess I will stick out easy and get stared at a lot.  I'm sticking to that story... ;D
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: floaty on April 12, 2015, 03:40:33 AM
If that's you in that picture, maybe they were staring at how skinny your face is? Or admiring your Bruce Lee hairstyle. Or maybe you look like an uncle. But you know how hmong people are, they probably heard stories about you that you didn't even know, and it came with a picture! Lol
But if I see you in person, I think I would stare, not because I'm checking you out or being rude, but admiring that skinny face and probably thinking how you handled it, lmao.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: VillainousHero on April 12, 2015, 03:42:50 AM
that is me...my baby face of a long time ago.
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Blongforever on December 25, 2016, 10:52:33 PM
Yeah...., let the men do the chasing.  When a woman chases a man, her chances of being used and dumped is too high.  Unless she's  dirty enough just to get a few dirty flings for the heck of getting flinged. :2funny:
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on January 11, 2017, 12:45:10 PM
I haven't checked this thread for a long time.

This is what I learned in my graph theory class.

You will increase your chance of finding a good match is you have the option to choose and reject.  Those that wait to be chosen can only reject, but not choose.  If the choices are A, B, C, and D but only C and D reach out to you.  Your only choices are C and D even though A and B may be better choices.  It doesn't mean A or B do not like you. 

I have seen beautiful Hmong women ended up with average or below average guy (look and quality).  Because all the better guys are too afraid to approach her and thus giving her the limited choice of the below average guy who got nothing to lose.  Had she approach them, she might have been in a different situation.  She probably even know they like her but they just never official approach or ask her.  But because she keeps waiting and waiting until the less matched guy come along.

Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: thePoster on January 11, 2017, 04:28:38 PM
Man!

Aint no woman ever gonna chase a man!!!

I mean!  I don't know when's the last time a girl paid for her's and mine meal!

Or paid for her's and mine movie ticket!

Or picked me up from my place!

Or pumped my gas for me!

Or pulled my seat out for me!

Or opened the door for me!

Or bring me flowers and be romantic!

Or basically do all the things a guy does for a girl....


So aint no girl ever going to chase a guy!

Why?!?! 

It's not because they are to uppity..

or too princess-cie...

or because they are a women...

It's because, well lets just face it folks, they're just lazy! Lazy lazy lazy lazy!!!!!!



Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: duckwingduck on January 11, 2017, 05:22:58 PM
I got women paid for my meals :)

Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Giggles_Shyly on January 12, 2017, 10:23:15 AM
Free meals are a dime a dozen, what about a car, house, financial stability?

I curious too if some women do this for their guy(s). I am sure some do because men do it with trophy wives :)
Title: Re: Do women chase men?
Post by: Magic Mike on January 12, 2017, 01:03:53 PM
When I run around the lake with a cheese burger in my hand. Damn girls be chasing me like crazy.  >:D