Honest to goodness, I'm glad I don't have a big butt anymore. Hispanics and blacks had a thing for mine and because I lived around them, I always hid it behind big t-shirts and loose jeans. I hated it when guys stared at it or whistled when I'd walk by. Growing up, all the Hmong girls I was around had flat butts and back in those days, that was popular. My big butt was too much for them. Not all girls want a big butt...well, not this one. This isn't to say, I have a flat butt now, I still have a butt. It's just not as big as it was then and I'd like to keep it that way. I still wear clothes to conceal the butt. You'll rarely see me wear leggings or skinny jeans or anything that will make it obvious.
What I don't want is a saggy butt so I do work it out and strengthen those babies at least twice a week with squats.