Two old high school friends and I met at a funeral after some years of missing in action.
One of them said the same thing: how come we don't meet up at other circumstances and why only at a funeral like this?
I did suggest that of them picked a pho lunch for the three of us to re-acquaint. We'll see if they take that seriously.
on the upside... family members whom have not met/talked in ages have the opportunity to reacquaint themselves...