What's the biggest red flag about you?

[ProudLao]

No one is perfect, so list them up 

[VillainousHero]

my eyes are up here...not below my belt line...

[Reporter]

Always fishing.

How can any woman who cares about family put up with that, huh?

[Mr_Mechanic]

 

[flint-rod]

imma phenomenal lover which makes me desired by many... i kid, i kid... lol!

[theking]

Narrow minded ignorant folks see me as a BIG RED FLAG because I'm a fan of FACTS and use it to beat their ignorance and thus, caused them to foam at the mouth when I call them out for making up stuff and challenged them to prove it...

[Yebleng]

My impatience.

[lilly]

I concur, because that's for others to say about me.  So my answer is same: 

[VillainousHero]

I concur, because that's for others to say about me.  So my answer is same: 

Ummm   look in the mirror...with low lights. 

[Dok_Champa]

Not the biggest red flag but a red flag, loves Kdrama.

[Reporter]

I did it again this Sunday. My third time already this spring.

Always fishing.

How can any woman who cares about family put up with that, huh?

[Reporter]

Sounds like the type who get mad when others just joking around for fun.

Umm it's hard to realize your own red flags because you're biased to like yourself already so at most you'll only be able to list your worst qualities if you even have that kind of self-awareness. Red flags are more like figurative warnings that other people notice about you.

For instance, one red flag that I notice about certain PH users is their inability to disagree with others in specific matters without resorting to name-calling, blatant hostility, or childish behavior. And since I want my PH experience to be pleasant, I usually ignore them.

But since we're all on PH killing time let me join in the fun and try to answer the question anyway. One of my biggest "red flags" is that I have a tendency to overanalyze or complicate situations simply by thinking too much. I also like things a certain way and will micromanage in order to get things done right. I can be entirely too serious sometimes, letting people's jokes go over my head and answering them somberly and then realizing too late that they were joking. On the flip side, I sometimes think people are joking when they're being serious. I also don't like to talk about myself unless I'm asked directly; this arising from the fact that many people ask me questions not out of pure interest but just as a way of opening a conversation where they just want to talk about themselves. In reality I don't mind not talking about myself and enjoy just talking about them if that's what they want however I dislike the disingenuous way it starts with questions about me that they clearly have no interest in.

[Peachy Fish]

If I know that you did something shady towards your parents or spouse, we cannot be friends. If you don't have respect for them, there is no light in day that you would respect our friendship, too.