it is really hard
hmong culture and custom is a never ending learning process
there are many things... i'm still learning today
had to help manage a funeral of a love one a few years back...
small hmong family..
finding the right people to play the qeej and and sing song
perform all the funeral ritul
is hard as hell
LUCKY... the HMONG funeral director has his own set of people who does this as a job
so if you have a love one who pass away
work with the local hmong funeral director
it cost like $2-3k to get like his people to perform the day 3 event