Hmmm what to do? What a way to start life together for this Asian married couple

[theking]

‘Too fat’ husband granted divorce after wife demands he pay her for sex

She redefined a “transactional relationship.”

A man in Taiwan filed for divorce from his wife after she demanded he pay for sex — on account of him being overweight and bad in bed.

The unlikely incel, surnamed Hao, had married his wife, Xuan, in 2014 and had two children, according to the South China Morning Post. However, problems began three years later after his soulmate restricted sex to once a month.

Two years later, in 2019, Xuan refused to have sex with him at all and reportedly told his relatives that he was “too fat” and “incompetent.”

Frustrated over the forced abstinence, her pent-up paramour filed for divorce in 2021 but walked back the lawsuit after she promised to work on their relationship. Hao even registered their home in her name.

But Xuan reverted to her old sex-blocking ways shortly after, reportedly charging him $15 whenever he wanted to make love or even talk.

The sex tax proved to be the tipping point: Hao wound up filing for divorce for a second time this year, which the judge granted on the grounds that their marriage was “cold and difficult to fix.”

His spouse didn’t want to dissolve their union and appealed to a higher court but was ultimately rejected.

Interestingly, this isn’t the first time someone has imposed a pay-for-play policy on their partner.

In 2014, a wife in Taiwan charged her truck driver husband NT $2,000 (US $60) for hanky-panky, as well as meals and chats, on the basis that he didn’t contribute enough money to the family.

According to New York City divorce lawyer James Sexton, two of the main reasons couples get divorced are money problems and issues in the boudoir.

Sexton claimed that a sex drought typically results in infidelity, observing that “men want more quantity sex, women want more quality,” as he revealed in a recent podcast.

“It’s the same reason porn is more popular with men than it is with women — because men just want to get the job done,” he said.

[Believe_N_Me]

I'm not surprised. Many Chinese enter marriage based on transactional agreements. It is very much a part of their culture.