My problem with groups that have experienced brutal oppression is when they accuse every criticism about them of having discriminatory intent. I highly recommend professional therapy to heal from their trauma.
They've become the forever victim who must be treated like fragile unicorns. I am so done with that nonsense.
The other day I bought a black Barbie couple. The little girl couldn't bring herself to say "black" out loud because it was pointing out their blackness and that, in her mind, would be misconstrued as racist. I told her it's okay and safe to say "black" because they are. Even Black people identify as "Black" so what else would we call them? For example, calling us "Hmong" is what we are. Heck, I don't even get offended if someone calls me Chinese since it's so commonplace for people to think Chinese = Asian. Just get over it.

The Chinese have done well to make themselves the most notable Asian ethnic group.
This is what the culture has devolved into. We're not allowed to point out immutable characteristic
s about people anymore because the fragile fairies call it microaggressio
n. We're not even supposed to call women "women" but must refer to them as cis-women.
I refused to be policed by the Language Nazis.