Don't marry your own people. In God's eyes it is forbidden. God made many different ethnicities for a reason. lol Whatever Hmong men complains about Hmong women, it's the same story with men of other colors with their own kind. See the pattern here? With your own, people get comfortable, and when people get too comfortable- shit will eventually hit the ceilings. But with interracial couples, there's that invincible line, constantly reminding both to be on their toes once things get out of hand. LOL