My question is why wasn't that an issue during the first 10 years??

[theking]

My wife doesn’t show me affection anymore, and I’m out of options

I have been married for 22 years. It was a normal relationship, and I was very happy. However, over the last 12 years, my wife has changed. There is ZERO affection, no hugging, holding hands, and nothing sexual.

We are like roommates. She blames it on having been molested when she was a child. Our level of intimacy was normal for 10 years.

I have suggested counseling, but she refuses. Bottom line: Should I stay, or should I go? I am 64 years old, and this is my second marriage. I don’t want to start over

[Prude]

She's gotten it elsewhere. Why does he believe her narrative or excuse? He's 64.