Tell me about your crushes.

[Prude]

My first was on some second grade classmate. Didn't know her last name.

One in a remote village just before I absconed to Thailand with my family. A Moua chick.
She was the joint crush of me and my toddler pal.

Then another in the camp. A Vang chick. Joint crush of me and several of my
classmates.

Then one in the fourth grade.  A Vang chick. My secret. No one else
knew.

No more until the 7th grade.  Another Vang chick. We didn't get to
touch hands.

Eighth grade through tenth. No crushes whatsover.

Eleventh grade had a Thao chick always sitting next to me in
our social studies class. I was particularly attracted to her
clean long hair. She always dressed clean and
looking fresh everyday. But no touching, even though
she, too, kept smiling at me.

None thereon.

No crush in college.  You know why.

No crush in grad school. You know why.

Remained a virgin into my older years. You don't know why.

Recent more crushes afterwards. Some Yangs. One Vue.
Wanted to be involved with three on a more serious level
but two  have failed.

Currently unsure about wanting any more crush.

[Believe_N_Me]

Sounds like you're addicted to limerence, or what the experts call the "honeymoon phase".

I've only had crushes on celebrities when I was a teenager. Nothing wrong with finding a celebrity to be physically attractive and even feeling drawn to the personality that they display to the fans. It's all part of the appeal and branding to get people to watch the movies and buy the merch. lol 

However, I knew that it wasn't love or anything genuine.

[Prude]

I couldn't help it.

[Believe_N_Me]

Koj siab coob es.

[Prude]

That's what people see only. They don't see the meaning.

What I'm demonstrating is what every human being goes through. There's
no one on Earth who has grown up falling for and loving just one person
since birth. There's so much beauty out in the world.

If those were all my soulmates, I would have had multiple wives. But
that's not the case. I'm not buying into any of the temptations.

[Prude]

Koj siab coob es.

Nope.

Siab coob is when I intentionally hunt around.

What I'm pointing out is what's naturally out there without
efforts or intentions on my part. I couldn't  help but admire
what's there. It's not that I seek them out for my pleasure.

I've been writing in English. I don't know why people don't understand
my message.

[JonniJacko]

All my crushes somehow, some reason are now on my hitlist...LOL j.k.

[Prude]

If you can't have them, no one can, huh?

[JonniJacko]

I learn it from the movie Daim Duab, Yia was a real g in that movie..LOL

j/k...just like any humans out there...someti mes we lost connection on bad terms, and sometimes on mutual terms...haha the ones on bad terms...Will, they're only on the hitlist so if I ever see them stranded somewhere, I aint stopping to help...LOL

[Prude]

I don't hold grudges with women.

[JonniJacko]

I don't hold grudges with women.

beware of the beautiful women stranded on the side of the freeway. Behind the brushes is a sniper ready to strike. lol

[Prude]

beware of the beautiful women stranded on the side of the freeway. Behind the brushes is a sniper ready to strike. lol

Yup. If they claim their Toyota has broken down,
you know it's not genuine. Toyotas don't break down.

But we just saw an international example of a Hmong guy
from that state who went to Columbia. Lots of snipers in  hiding.