When someone tells you that their past relationship(s) failed because...

[Believe_N_Me]

...of their ex(es), but then you noticed that they don't give much to the relationship they have with you...trust your intuition.

No, it's not because they loved their ex(es) more than they love you. It's not that they were more attracted to their ex(es) than they are to you. And it certainly isn't because they gave more to their ex(es) than they do to you.

Isn't it obvious?

They're just a bum who doesn't love anyone to make any relationship work.

110% certain that once you're out of the picture, they're going to lie to the new person that you were the reason why the connection didn't work. You were unappreciative and overly critical of them, even though they tried their best. And of course, you had glaring flaws that conflicted with their expectations.

[Believe_N_Me]

Some people really do just use others before moving on. Nobody has that many angry exes except for a jerk.

A man has been in serious relationships with a wide variety of women - young, old, educated, uneducated, divorced, single, widowed, in the states, oversea, etc. None of those relationships worked out. According to him, all his exes were to blame.

Nobody can keep up with his body count.

He claims that he just wants someone to love and have it be reciprocated. Looks like he has had many to love.

One of his angry exes demanded to know the quality of his past relationships. She found herself feeling very envious of the women before her. His third ex-wife finally cracked his egg. She confirmed that the dude doesn't love anyone but himself, and that there was nothing to be envious about. The lucky women are those who didn't have his children. Dude just abandons them and never pays child support.

[JonniJacko]

Yeah some people just want to have sex, and if not that, whatever will benefit them.

But that's not really the root of the issue. The root issue is people are not recognizing the biological flaws of human nature. And the truth is, it's very very brutal. Just like how a herd of Lions tearing up a wilderbeast with no remorse whatsoever.... Humans are not necessarily brutal in a physical sense, but more in a emotional sense...when feelings are hurt, egos are bruised, spirits will be stabbed, slice, ripped apart with no remorse...LOL

The key is to only deal with humans with minimal primal traits. Better, they recognize the flaws of carrying them and know how to turn them off. It's kind of nerving when you realize most humans out there only carry the most basic human traits. So yup, People gotta start reading the Bible again...haha The reason why the Bible exists is to guide Humans to abandon their primal/biological nature.

[Believe_N_Me]

This type of person will never take accountability and instead, believe that the other people are the problem. They hurt relationships including those with their children.