Many Hmong women didn't have a say but if you Hmong women have a choice, would

[theking]

...you be OK like this White girl? 

Nikki Glaser is OK with her boyfriend hooking up with other women. Why some experts say these relationships can totally work.
Nikki Glaser would be totally OK with her boyfriend, TV producer Chris Convy, hooking up with other women.

“In a relationship, I don't really care if my boyfriend were to hook up [with others]," Glaser said on the April 8 episode of Alex Cooper’s Call Her Daddy podcast. And while Glaser said she’s not the type to hook up outside of a relationship, she “kind of” likes the idea of her partner doing so.

“I don't care if a guy has a sexual connection with a girl and he was to use protection and just have sex with her for a night. I don't,” she insisted. “I literally wouldn't care if my husband did that.”

On Call Her Daddy’s TikTok, comments on a video of the interview range widely. While one person called Glaser’s thoughts the “saddest thing” they ever heard — and more echoed similar sentiments — others applauded Glaser for her honesty.

“The amount of people on this earth that haven’t cheated or been cheated on is sooo minuscule that im shocked anyone is still surprised when it happens,” one wrote. “Shes just speaking facts and people arent ready to hear it.”

Non-monogamy has become more prevalent in pop culture
Glaser’s comments come at a time when polyamorous relationships are being discussed more openly in pop culture. But not everyone is praised for sharing. Shrill author Lindy West has faced criticism after writing about being in a throuple with husband Ahamefule Oluo and girlfriend Roya Amirsoleimani in her new memoir Adult Braces.

West, a feminist writer who has written about struggling to find love as a person living in a larger body, was accused of being coerced into an open relationship by her husband (which she strongly denies) as well as betraying her own feminist ideals in service of a man’s desires for multiple partners.

And then there’s Lily Allen, whose 2025 album West End Girl painted a portrait of her unhappy open marriage, alleging that her husband, Stranger Things star David Harbour, broke the established rules of their arrangement. On the track “Nonmonogamummy,” she sings, “I don't want to f*** with anyone else / I know that's all you want to do / I'm so committed that I'd lose myself / Because I don't want to lose you.”

[Believe_N_Me]

This gives me the big ICK.

It also turns me off when a man has had multiple serious girlfriends because in my mind I will always be thinking about how he must have flattered all of them with sweet words, gifts, plans, promises, and all sorts of attention as if she was the love of his life. I will be thinking, "wow, all these things he said to me he said to another woman." He even thought she was the one. This is why I dislike Ted Mosby from "How I Met Your Mother".

I will view him as lacking self-discipline. Like really? You thought you were in love with each girlfriend at the time that you were with them? Made them believe that they were the one only to be discarded in the end? Sounds like you used them to get access to them and then dumped them.

But for some reason if a man is divorced it doesn't bother me as much. A man showing love, affection, to his wife, is him showing commitment and investment in his marriage. He did those things obviously because it's expected of a husband. But if things didn't work out then it just didn't. Not a red flag unless he was the one who sabotaged it.

[AppleBrook]

if tolerable or acceptable, it can be a promotion mechanism for the marriage (either he or she).