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Adult Film Star Freezing Eggs At 37 Says Motherhood Now Would Derail Her Career: “Having A Baby Right Now Would Turn My Life Inside Out And Upside Down”
Adult film actress Alix Lynx decided to freeze her eggs at the age of 37, and she refuses to get pregnant right now simply because the biological clock is ticking, or the time when her career and lifestyle would be destroyed by a child has come.

Lynx realizes it is hard to ignore the pressure of the biological clock, but she will never let it dictate her decision, which she considers one of the most crucial. She isn't sure whether she wants to become a mother one day, but she definitely knows she doesn't want to right now.

Instead of becoming a mother because she fears being left alone with children in the future, she freezes her eggs to preserve her opportunity to continue her career and life the way she wants, without worrying about whether she will want children later.

"Having a baby right now would be turning my life upside down and inside out," Lynx said. "I'm working, I'm building my career, and I feel like I'm building something. It is very important for me to have a plan and a good foundation that will support me in the future, instead of ruining my career and setting me back.

After 14 years in the adult film business, Lynx enjoys her career on OnlyFans, and she isn't willing to stop just because she is at the age when women usually think about having children.

"Because of the nature of my job, I will always adapt, evolve, and pivot whatever happens. But now, I earn my money on OnlyFans, and I want to focus on it," she said.

"If I have a child right now just because I reached the age when people expect it from me, I will definitely destroy my career. I'm very career-oriented right now, and I think it's OK."

Freezing her eggs doesn't mean Lynx will become a mother one day. She describes this process as an "insurance plan," which gives her an opportunity to wait a little longer before deciding whether she wants to have children.

"If you ask me right now, if I want to have a baby, the answer would be no. How am I going to feel in a few years? I really don't know. I'm changing myself all the time, and I know that I will be in a very different place in a few years. I cannot predict how I will feel about motherhood."

For her, it means she wants to keep her options open, and she doesn't want to decide right now.

Lynx has already faced criticism about her decision regarding the freezing of her eggs, and she is receiving comments related to her age and fertility since she began discussing it.

"I've already received the comment like, 'I'm surprised that you still have eggs.' And I reply to them, 'Are you thinking that I'm 47?'", she said.