So why did she blame her father for her death?
You know the xwb kab thingy? You're suppose to change it every year or so... keep it looking nice and clean to show respect and so forth. Her dad never did that. Instead of making a new one, he would just use one of those dust things, and use it to get rid of the dust. Plus, he kept tlaking about converting to christianity, and that he doesn't like the Hmong tradition, and bad mouthing things he weren't suppose to. I suppose this angered the xwb kab? They wanted to punish her father, so they took the thing he loved most... and that was his eldest daughter, my cousin.
I remember before she passed away, she said that she was sleeping on the couch near the xwb kab, and then she had a dream of an old man with feather like eyebrows. He came to her and said that he wants her to go with him.