I am not complaining about the duration of the hmong funeral. That is entirely up to the family, and also depend on how old the deceased person was. If it is an elderly person, esp a male, because he has had a longer life the duration of the funeral will be longer because the ritual takes longer. If for a young person or kid, the ritual is shorter but family can still choose to do a longer funeral.
I understand guests comes far to pay their respect to the deceased, but I dislike when I hear people complain about the food, like how the oranges are too sour, or get more this rather than that etc... it is just comments people make, but sometime I find that insensitive.