Going to Laos... For Dummies (Like Me)

[SleeplessBeauty]

SleeplessBeauty

This is probably not the right forum or place for this discussion... so, I will be brief. I don’t condone cheating spouses, I think they are some of the lowest lifeforms on earth, next to divorce lawyers in my book. Having said that, I would have to agree with theKing. I believe that if your husband/wife is going to cheat on you, he/she will do it regardless of where you travel or where you live. If someone truly loves you, they should honor and love you dispite the temptations that may lay in front of them. Trust is the key. I would rather let my spouse roam, knowing that I can trust her completely than having her caged and having to worry if she will cheat on me when I have my back turned.

LHG

You are correct to a certain extent but it’s more likely to happen if he goes to Laos. Afterall, he is on vacation so whatever happens in Laos stay in Laos.  It is easier and tempted to cheat in Laos because of the availability and willingness of the hmong girls there for money plus they’re younger meat versus here in the US, the availability and willingness of those willing to cheat with him are older divorcees who are looking for love/attachment.

[Gawmp]

LHG/Lindavue - please do keep us in the loop too when travel time comes around again. I am excited for you guys.

[AOZ]

 
You are correct to a certain extent but it’s more likely to happen if he goes to Laos. Afterall, he is on vacation so whatever happens in Laos stay in Laos.  It is easier and tempted to cheat in Laos because of the availability and willingness of the hmong girls there for money plus they’re younger meat versus here in the US, the availability and willingness of those willing to cheat with him are older divorcees who are looking for love/attachment.

when the opppurtunity is there... any husband will take that oppurtunity.   

[SleeplessBeauty]

when the opppurtunity is there... any husband will take that oppurtunity.   

yup. men will never ever admit to what their true intention is when they want to visit Laos but we are not stupid!

[AOZ]

yup. men will never ever admit to what their true intention is when they want to visit Laos but we are not stupid!

the women there are simply irresistible to men from all over the world.  props to them because they have mastered the art of wooing any man.   

if there is any doubt your husband will fall for temptation... you best go with him or better yet...no trip alone.   

[theking]

SleeplessBeauty

This is probably not the right forum or place for this discussion... so, I will be brief. I don’t condone cheating spouses, I think they are some of the lowest lifeforms on earth, next to divorce lawyers in my book. Having said that, I would have to agree with theKing. I believe that if your husband/wife is going to cheat on you, he/she will do it regardless of where you travel or where you live. If someone truly loves you, they should honor and love you dispite the temptations that may lay in front of them. Trust is the key. I would rather let my spouse roam, knowing that I can trust her completely than having her caged and having to worry if she will cheat on me when I have my back turned.

LHG

You nailed (for lack of a better word) it!!!

"Trust" is key for sure, if you don't have that, it's not going to work imho...

[theking]

yup. men will never ever admit to what their true intention is when they want to visit Laos but we are not stupid!

Same kind of thinking can apply to women too...it's not like women don't cheat on their husbands.

[boO]

LHG

Whoo hoo for you...

[SleeplessBeauty]

Same kind of thinking can apply to women too...it's not like women don't cheat on their husbands.

I don't think I have heard of cases where a married woman go to Laos to cheat/married txiv yau on her husband. Those few women that went oversea were all divorced.I hear so many married men going to Laos to tham hluas nkauj/ yuav niam yau.

[theking]

I don't think I have heard of cases where a married woman go to Laos to cheat/married txiv yau on her husband. Those few women that went oversea were all divorced.I hear so many married men going to Laos to tham hluas nkauj/ yuav niam yau.

The women oppressing primitive Hmong ways have very little respect for women. A man can do just about anything he wants and his wife have very little to zero say in the matter. In the Hmong society, Hmong men are allowed to date/have mistresses and even marry other women after they are already married but a woman cannot. Therefore, those "married men" feel it's their right to do so. I'm glad that some Hmong women have empowered themselves via the ways of the west. They have the power to speak up against the primitive ways, and if their husbands choose to break the trust, they'll pay for it.

But getting back on the "cheating" topic, Hmong women can and have cheated just the same as men when they want to and yes, even the married ones. Which is why I said, Same kind of thinking can apply to women too...

[LonelyHmgGuy]

LHG/Lindavue - please do keep us in the loop too when travel time comes around again. I am excited for you guys.

Thank you for the well wishes. I will keep you all posted. Heck, might even invite you all to the wedding. 

[LonelyHmgGuy]

LHG

Whoo hoo for you...

Thank you boo... I also heard from your friend and I am so happy for you as well. Maybe someday we all can meet! 90 days and counting for me!!! BitterSweet!

[LonelyHmgGuy]

when the opppurtunity is there... any husband will take that oppurtunity.   

AOZ - I am not sure if you're statement was made on a serious note or not... but there are still some people (both HUSBANDS and WIVES) who are generally honest and very faithful to their spouses. So, I would disagree with you, NOT ALL husbands would "take the opportunity" as you would put it.

I was not like that, on both of my trips to Laos, I DID NOT and will NOT visit those "hotels".  But, YES, there are still a bunch of us that are still honest and faithful to our S/O. I pity those that have to constantly look after or watch over their spouses so that they will not cheat, it's horrible way to live and love.

LHG

[theking]

AOZ - I am not sure if you're statement was made on a serious note or not... but there are still some people (both HUSBANDS and WIVES) who are generally honest and very faithful to their spouses. So, I would disagree with you, NOT ALL husbands would "take the opportunity" as you would put it.

I was not like that, on both of my trips to Laos, I DID NOT and will NOT visit those "hotels".  But, YES, there are still a bunch of us that are still honest and faithful to our S/O. I pity those that have to constantly look after or watch over their spouses so that they will not cheat, it's horrible way to live and love.

LHG

Don't sweat it LHG. Some people have a very narrow and short sighted views i.e., clumping everyone together like that, but when you ask for proof, all you hear is crickets. Sometimes, you have to take some people's words with a grain of salt due to ignorance.

[lindavue]

Thank you for the well wishes. I will keep you all posted. Heck, might even invite you all to the wedding. 

lol.... yes do keep us posted lol....very happy for you...