I don't find the club/bar scene appealing after or before marriage. There's nothing there other than drinking, dancing, and guys meets girls. You can say it's good for a girls' night out but eventually you'll have guys coming over to bother because that's what people do at clubs/bars..bothering each other, drinking, dancing, etc... That's to be expected. These days some men don't care if you're married.. They say when you entered the club, all women are game.
No matter how supportive a husband claim to be, deep down he's not jumping up for joy. Eventually, if this continues, problem of some kinds will happen.
Also, when you go to a public place like a club, your family, relatives, people you know are there.. and yes, you take the risk of being "misunderstood".. because you go to a place where guys meets girls, guys prey on girls, guys flirts with girls, etc... and what people think of you transfer to your other life outside the club scene. They may look at you differently, treat you differently...
Let's say..I'm not gay but I go to a gay club with my lesbian/gay friends. Eventually, some people will think I'm gay...hahahah something like that.