I'm so over STINGY and GREEDY people. I'm to the point where I'm GLAD that they show up to spend TIME with everyone. Money doesn't have a lot of value to me, but TIME, that's a commodity you cannot buy back even if you are Bill Gates. Hopefully, this perspective helps to grow the goodness of your humanity.
Other things I seek are LISTENING (coachability), RESPECT, KINDNESS, and GRATITUDE. As a true giver, the people I dislike the most are ingrates. Even then I try to tell myself that I am undeserving of Christ and he grants me GRACE by MERCY and so I grant them mercy like Christ granted me mercy and granted me grace. Truly this is the core message of the Holiday and the SPIRIT.
Had a family potluck thanksgiving
Every family was supposed to bring something
My wife make some fried noodles
Just as we suspected
This family members show up empty hand
Did bring all his kids (6 of them)
They say they don’t have money
And just show up to eat anyway
My wife and the other housewives are a little upset