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Something to talk about on a BEAUTIFUL DAY: Second Chances
« on: March 19, 2021, 04:42:19 PM »
Let's say many years later you have the opportunity to reconnect, have a second chance, with an ex (ex-gf, ex-bf, ex-wife, ex-husband), and the person is no longer the same, has turned a new leaf.   Would you give that person a second chance or once is enough to last a lifetime?




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Re: Something to talk about on a BEAUTIFUL DAY: Second Chances
« Reply #1 on: March 19, 2021, 04:46:04 PM »
Let's say many years later you have the opportunity to reconnect, have a second chance, with an ex (ex-gf, ex-bf, ex-wife, ex-husband), and the person is no longer the same, has turned a new leaf.   Would you give that person a second chance or once is enough to last a lifetime?

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Re: Something to talk about on a BEAUTIFUL DAY: Second Chances
« Reply #2 on: March 19, 2021, 04:46:55 PM »
Depends on the situation but most likely NO...

I mean I still stay in touch with some of my EX's to a small degree but going back to where things were, NO..



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Re: Something to talk about on a BEAUTIFUL DAY: Second Chances
« Reply #3 on: March 19, 2021, 04:51:34 PM »
i won't give up on you
so you better not give up on me
Good philosophy
Depends on the situation but most likely NO...

I mean I still stay in touch with some of my EX's to a small degree but going back to where things were, NO..
Of course not, but let's say hypothetically, you're avaialble.

Folks, this hypothetical question implies all party are available, single, no attachment to anyone or any person.



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Re: Something to talk about on a BEAUTIFUL DAY: Second Chances
« Reply #4 on: March 19, 2021, 04:52:48 PM »
I remembered going to common friend's wedding and one of my EX's was there and we still greeted each other cordially. My wife and I walked over to her and I gave her hug, introduce my wife to her and vice-versa, wish her well and that was that..Then I told my wife our back story and that was that..Once the wedding was done, we go on our own ways.. All good. O0


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Re: Something to talk about on a BEAUTIFUL DAY: Second Chances
« Reply #5 on: March 19, 2021, 04:54:41 PM »
Good philosophyOf course not, but let's say hypothetically, you're avaialble.

Folks, this hypothetical question implies all party are available, single, no attachment to anyone or any person.

Still no.., there's a reason why we went our own ways... O0



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Re: Something to talk about on a BEAUTIFUL DAY: Second Chances
« Reply #6 on: March 19, 2021, 04:57:57 PM »
I remembered going to common friend's wedding and one of my EX was there so we still greet each other cordially. My wife and I walked over to her and I gave her hug, wish her well and that was that..Then I told my wife our back story and that was that..Once the wedding was done, we go on our own ways.. All good. O0
good good and things like that exist when there's mutual trust between couples.

Let's say you're single, available, would you give a second chance to an ex (ex-wife, ex-gf), a real second chance to make things right or attempt to make things right.



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Re: Something to talk about on a BEAUTIFUL DAY: Second Chances
« Reply #7 on: March 19, 2021, 05:08:19 PM »
My hottie tells me that she's happy I have not given up on her, no matter what.

Okay, gotta find that hottie so I can prove my statement.

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Re: Something to talk about on a BEAUTIFUL DAY: Second Chances
« Reply #8 on: March 19, 2021, 05:09:13 PM »
My hottie tells me that she's happy I have not given up on her, no matter what.

Okay, gotta find that hottie so I can prove my statement.

Hey, gotta get that "steak" first.. ;D O0



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Re: Something to talk about on a BEAUTIFUL DAY: Second Chances
« Reply #9 on: March 19, 2021, 05:16:18 PM »
Of course.

People aren't perfect. Gotta give one another chances to correct things.

Let's say many years later you have the opportunity to reconnect, have a second chance, with an ex (ex-gf, ex-bf, ex-wife, ex-husband), and the person is no longer the same, has turned a new leaf.   Would you give that person a second chance or once is enough to last a lifetime?



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Re: Something to talk about on a BEAUTIFUL DAY: Second Chances
« Reply #10 on: March 19, 2021, 05:16:44 PM »
Yea. That's right. She's out there...perhap s overseas?

Hey, gotta get that "steak" first.. ;D O0



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Re: Something to talk about on a BEAUTIFUL DAY: Second Chances
« Reply #11 on: March 19, 2021, 08:06:09 PM »
Ex-wife = nope. remarry means adultery
Ex-girlfriend = maybe unless she interest in multiple night stands.



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